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Icebreaker Question: If you could describe peace in one word, what would it be and why?

The Future Is Built in the Present

Philippians 4:6–7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
We live in an anxious world. Everyone’s racing somewhere, chasing something, hoping to control what’s next. But Paul reminds us that the future is not built by worrying about it… it’s built by trusting God with today.
He wrote these words from prison. Picture the walls cold and damp, no timeline for release, and still he writes, “Do not be anxious.” That is crazy... Because Paul didn’t write this as a man who had no problems… he wrote it as a man who had peace in spite of the problems. That’s what makes Philippians 4 so powerful. Peace isn’t the absence of chaos, it’s the presence of Christ.

Anxiety Is the Thief of the Present

When Paul says “Don’t be anxious,” he’s not being unrealistic, he’s being trusting. Anxiety steals what God is trying to build in your present. It drains your strength, fogs your mind, and keeps your heart stuck in “what if” instead of “what is.”

Even good things like planning for the future can create anxiety when we forget who holds the future. When we start to depend on our own strategy, we end up missing the peace that comes from God’s sovereignty. Paul reminds us that: you can’t add a single hour to your life by worrying (Matthew 6:27). But you can waste the one you’re living if you do.

Faith doesn’t silence the noise, it just helps you hear God’s voice above it. Anxiety is loud, but peace whispers. And sometimes, the reason we can’t hear God is because we’ve given anxiety the microphone.

When you stop rehearsing the “what ifs” and start resting in the “even ifs”, even if it doesn’t go my way, even if I don’t see it yet... you make space for His voice to lead you again. Faith doesn’t erase uncertainty, it invites God into it. And the moment you do, the noise starts to quiet down… not because life got easier, but because your heart remembered who’s in control.

📍 Discussion Question: What’s one thing you’ve been so worried about that it’s been stealing your peace today?
Peace doesn’t come from controlling the future… it comes from trusting the One who already lives there.

The Secret to Peace Is Prayer and Gratitude

Philippians 4:6–7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Paul gives us a formula right in verse 6, "pray, petition, and give thanks". It’s like he’s saying: Take your hands off the problem and put them together in prayer. Every prayer transfers the weight from you to God. Gratitude then shifts your focus from what’s missing to what’s already here.

When our church first started, there wasn’t much to rely on, no big building, no budget, just faith. But there was a clear sense of purpose. Pastor Josue felt a deep burden for Yuma a city full of Hispanic families who needed God and needed a church that would teach sound doctrine, stay faithful to what the Bible says, and reach the next generation with life and creativity. So much that he left everything behind, family, security, multiple family businesses, not to live a better life... but to start from 0. Not to follow "the American Dream", but to pursue God's dream. Not to build a trend, but to plant truth.

That conviction became the heartbeat of our church. In moments when the future looked uncertain, prayer became the foundation. When fear crept in, gratitude opened the door to peace. And God showed up, not just to provide, but to remind us that His Word is enough and His promises are true.

That’s the kind of prayer Paul’s talking about... prayer that releases instead of retains. Gratitude is the faith that thanks God before the miracle, not just after we get what we wanted.

📍 Discussion Question:  How would your outlook change if you thanked God for what He’s doing before you see the result?
Gratitude doesn’t wait for our miracle... it helps us create space for God's miracles.

The Peace of God Defies Logic

Paul finishes this thought with a promise: “The peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” That means His peace is not logical... it’s supernatural.

The peace of the world depends on how things are going, but God’s peace depends on who you’re walking with. You can be in the middle of uncertainty and still have calm because Jesus is right there in it with you. Peace isn’t found when everything’s fixed, it’s found when everything’s surrendered.

There’s a moment when you stop trying to figure everything out and finally say, “God, I give it to You.” And somehow, in that moment, something shifts. The problem might still be there, but your heart isn’t the same. That’s the peace that guards you stands at the door of your mind and says, “Fear, you can’t come in anymore.”

📍Discussion Question: What’s one area of your life where you need to let go so God can bring peace?
Peace doesn’t come when you understand everything, it comes when you release everything.

Final Thoughts & Application

Paul’s message reminds us that the future isn’t out there somewhere — it’s being shaped by how we trust God right now. The anxious heart looks ahead and panics; the faithful heart looks up and prays.

This week, take this with you:

Reflect: What are you trying to control that God is asking you to release?

Remember: God’s peace doesn’t just visit — it stays when invited.

Act: Each morning this week, pray, “Lord, I trust You with today.” Start there. That’s how you build your future — one surrendered moment at a time.

The same God who spoke the world into existence is still writing your story. The future is in His hands… but the decision of your present is in yours.

Let’s pray.